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I am back :)!

So… I haven’t been blogging lately :). I have been busy with my web design business.I have decided that I am going to try to add a forum to this site :).

 

So stay tuned.

 

 

Bobby 😛

Photo shoot!!

I am interested in taking some pictures to put on my blog. I am offering a free photo shoot to all of you (excludes prints, if you want any). The only thing that I ask is that you have your own transportation (I live near the INLAND EMPIRE, CA) and have an idea of what kind of pictures or theme your would like to take.

If you are interested please contact me XD.

Bobby XD

Video Podcast

Urgent:

If you live within 30 miles from the INLAND EMPIRE, CA and you would like to be involved in my video series please contact me!! Just go to my contact page and tell me that you are interested.  As of right now, I don’t have a set theme. Please, if you are feeling generous, help me come up with one. What is it that you want to see??

You make a better window than a door. on Twitpic (Random)

You make a better window than a door. on Twitpic.

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Funny Stuff 🙂

Fighting extremists with extremists?!

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On April 8th, 2011, TWO released a blog post called “Kosher.com Discontinues Affiliation with JONAH in Response to Queerty Story & TWO’s Petition.”

Basically the post is about how TWO got a petition written up and signed (1,000 signatures) “calling on Kosher.com to discontinue their affiliation with JONAH.”

Quick definitions: JONAH is a known “anti-gay jewish organization; Kocher.com is an online grocery store.

The link at the top leads to the article.

Some of us are hitting our “enemies” back with the same treatment and opposition as we, the LGBT Community and even African-Americans, Native Americans and so on, had once received. To be in a huge world, where everyone is different, co-existence must be the #1 pushed idea and concept, as opposed to intolerance. Or else, I fear that history is definitely going to repeat itself.

Enjoy.

This post is not a plea to change TWO’s actions and methods.

Summer is coming?!

For all you college students out there, summer is the season of fun!! XD What do you have planned? What are you looking forward to? What is your #1 goal on your list of awesome things to do this summer and why??

What is the benefit of asking these questions you ask?? 1) to start planning for summer, duh! XD. 2) I will feature your answers on my new page “Summer Fun”! Every two weeks there will be a new winner. So don’t give up :). So happy thinking and start sending those answers!

Finally, over 50% of America supports gay marriage!

The Washington Post/ABC news took a poll asking “Do you think it should be legal or illegal for gay and lesbian couples to get married?” Surely enough, the number of people who replied that gay marriage should be legal increased by 17 percent making it now 53%!

According to 365Gaynews.com the “results indicate increased support from men, college-educated whites, political independents and participates who are not religious-affiliated.”

The poll was randomly conducted by phone from March 10 to 13 and sampled 1,005 adults.

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More on the Confession iPhone app.

Today Dr. Gary Remafedi, a researcher at University of Minnesota, wrote a letter to Apple claiming that the App misrepresents his research on homosexuality and asks for the app to be removed. Here is the letter:

Dear Messrs. Jobs and Cook,

This message serves as a request to remove the Exodus International application from Apple’s iphone offerings because the website content is objectionable. It erroneously cites my research (Remafedi 1992) in support of claims that homosexuality can be changed.

Various professional organizations, including the American Medical Association and the American Academy of Pediatrics, have taken the position that homosexuality is not a mental or physical condition. Programs which aim to change sexual orientation have been opposed because they are unwarranted, ineffective, unethical, and harmful.

Exodus’s website features an article (Buchanan 2010) which makes erroneous statements and conclusions and attributes them to Remafedi (1992). Statements were made to the effect to that many teens are confused about their sexual orientation and that sexual orientation is amenable to change.  Further, associating my work with that of the ex-gay ministry and other unfounded treatments is professionally injurious and grievous.

As a savvy consumer, I understand that corporations market phones both by offering a wide array of applications and by appealing to niche audiences like Exodus’s. In turn, Exodus applies the Apple “4+” smartphone application rating to its own website as an imprimatur (see http://exodusinternational.org/).

From my perspective, the risk of offending and harming consumers by providing a platform for erroneous information about an important health and social topic far outweighs the potential financial gain. Arguably, corporations have no affirmative responsibility to vendors under the First Amendment of the Constitution, but they are accountable for the quality and consequences of their products.

For the aforementioned reasons, I ask Apple to revoke the 4+ rating and delete the Exodus application from the iphone’s menu of applications.

Respectfully,

Gary Remafedi, M.D., M.P.H

Questions Students May Ask and Possible Reponses About Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People

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I have found a pdf from HRC that can help adults answer questions asked by children that they don’t fully understand. However, I think this pdf can help people of all ages, please take a look.

Here is a little snippet, I will provide the pdf at the bottom.

What does “gay” mean?
Being gay means that a person loves, in a very special way, someone who is the same gender. For example, a gay man wants to be involved with and love another man. A gay woman, or
lesbian, wants to be involved with and love another woman. Gay people might choose to have a special relationship with someone and share their home and have a family together. Keep it simple. Focus on relationships and family. For older students you could say, “Men who are attracted to and want to have romantic relationships with men.” Or, “Women who are attracted to and want to have romantic relationships with women.” (Note: For more definitions see: What Does Gay Mean? on page C2)

 

What’s a lesbian?
The word “lesbian” describes a woman who is attracted to and wants to have a romantic relationship with a woman. Or you could say that a lesbian is a woman who wants to fall in love with or is in love with another woman in a very special way. How does someone know if they are gay? At what age do you become gay? Some people may realize they are gay when they are teenagers, while others may not figure it out until they are much older. Being gay has to do with a feeling deep inside of you. (Note: People who are LGBT often say they may have felt different when they were younger but that they didn’t
identify this feeling of difference with being gay until they were teenagers or older.)

 

Are you born LGBT?
People don’t know for sure. Scientists have not been able to agree about why some people are LGBT. However, most scientists believe that sexual orientation is just a part of who you are when you are born. (According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, “Sexual orientation probably is not determined by any one factor but by a combination of genetic, hormonal and environmental influences. In recent decades, biologically based theories have been favored by experts.”1)

 

Is it a choice?
No, it is not a choice. People don’t choose to be gay or not. As people grow older they become aware of feeling attracted to others, whether those feelings are for someone of the same gender, a different gender or both. (According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, “Sexual orientation is usually established during early childhood.”2)

Questions Students May Ask and Possible Reponses About Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People

Pray Away the Gay Tour: Two gay men get married after meeting at “Ex-Gay” ministry, Love in action.

Truth Wins Out invited KC and Larry to Memphis to speak at Rhodes College on the closing night of TWO Executive Director Wayne Besen’s Winter Tour.  The speaking engagement brought KC & Larry back to where it all began — at the Memphis “ex-gay” ministry!

 

 

Enjoy.

 

 

 

 

 

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