My “name” is nightstar23 or star. I am 14 and about a month ago I made a shocking discovery that I was bisexual. The weird thing is I didn’t know it until I asked my bestie (lets call her jade) if she was bi one morning after having an amazingly ironic dream about her and another close friend making out 0.o. So I asked her that morning and she told me in secrecy that she honestly didn’t know. Then she told me that the reason she was questioning herself was becuz her ex bf confided in her that he is fact bi. When she told me that she was bi there was no doubt in my eyes that I was too. I could see our whole life’s pass b4 my eyes.
That day I was in a blur of confusion. I was in love with my best friend who I kept nothing from. So the next day I asked her if she had figured things out yet. She simply said she was relatively sure she was bi. Then I told her. She was relieved that I could relate. I know her well and was able to recognize that she had feelings for me. So on the next day, which was a Monday, at lunch I asked her if she liked me, she refused to reply. It was only hours then before we started dating.
That is when we more officially entered the community. Once I entered the closet I found that there was a whole secret society living there already. The closet is like Narnia, once you enter it’s a whole other world.
Though the closet is hard such as having to listen to criticism from others in silent because if we say anything we will seem overly defensive. In the halls, in my home, the discrimination is everywhere. I think it is well worth it. I love my gf with all my heart. We have entered this world together, I have been her best friend for about two years. We have told some of our closer friends and they were happy for us and said we make a cute couple. One of them admitted to being bi after I informed her I was and get this shes the same one that I had a dream was kissing jade!! I am happy. I am hiding in the closet. and I am not alone.
-thanks for listening this is the shortened version
Well “for the purposes of this site” you may call me blondie1015 XP. So lets begin, my mother is a lesbian and I’ve grown up with having a gay mom my whole life. I always questioned whether I liked girls. When I was in preschool I had a girlfriend but to me that was normal until I got older. And that’s when I started being with boys. I liked and still do like boys but…there was one person, who was a female, that i couldn’t deny my attraction. It was so weird. And well, I’m with her now. We have an amazing relationship. It’s very solid and I’m not scared of anything when I’m with her. Being with her has allowed me to discover so many things about my self. Like the fact I’m attracted to other girls as well as boys. I guess you can call me bisexual but the funny thing is that i never used to believe in bisexuals. i thought it was just a comfort zone. like your able to be gay without having to fully admit it. but hey, look at me. so i guess I’m still trying to figure that out. As for my mom, she doesn’t understand at all!!! She thinks I’m one of those straight girls that just wants to ef with a gay girls emotions. (obviously not) my mom’s mom sat me down and had a long convo with me because she was scared for me. She said she couldn’t help me with anything because she can not imagine what it’s like being with a girl. and that i would be able to contract std’s more easily because how can you protect yourself if it’s two girls?? (I don’t even know really) My other grandma is super religious, I’m scared to even tell her…she looks at me as her perfect angel.. Judgments come from every end of the spectrum, even my mother who is gay cannot understand what it means to be “bisexual”. It still is sometimes hard because im torn between wanting a “normal” relationship (boy/girl) and wanting to be with the person i love so much. Sometimes it’s soo confusing. But in the end…she makes me happy. And shouldn’t that be all that matters?? Why does the world feel the need to get involved with other people’s relationships. geez loo-eez. well, i love her…and that’s my story 😉
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Okay, so I was telling this story to my significant other and I was surprised that he/she (vague I know XD) had no idea that this could happen that I decided that every one should know….. you know… just in case… o.O.
Okay well I knew a straight couple that decided they would like to try something new, you know to juice up the relationship. They decided that they will try Mayonnaise as a lubricant. Well a few days later the girl was at school and during a lecture she started to have a massive orgasm. Well she went to the doctor and she found out that she had maggots growing in her vagina!
I just thought you guys should know! Don’t not use dairy products as a lubricant! As a matter of fact, lubricant must be water based to be the most efficient and safe!! AND Do not use baby oil, it can increase your chances of cervical cancer!!
When it comes to age, statistics show that couples involving two gay men tend to have the largest age gap. Most of our modern society frowns upon such a large difference (15-20 years). What do you think? Do you think age is just a number? Or do you think it’s unnatural for such a relationship to exist?
I personally prefer such an age difference. I find that many guys my own age have interests that lie outside my own…and inversely -I find that more mature guys share my interests and concerns. The relationships I develop are deeper and i have to act very removed when going out into public. Despite all the judging eyes however, I wouldn’t change it for the world 🙂